1. We miss them
Many of us have loved ones who had departed to be with the Lord. We still miss them as time doesn’t take away the pain in our hearts. Special occasions like their birthdays, Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, Chinese New Year, Christmas etc only remind us how much we miss them. Their photos, appearances in our videos and even recorded voices just bring back strong memories of them.
2. They are at home with the Lord
Our loved ones who believed in the Lord is with Christ and is better off than before (Philippians 1:23). Although we cannot see them, they are at home with the Lord (2 Corinthians 5:8). How do we deal with the lingering pain of their departure? The Bible says in Philippians 1:27, “Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the Gospel?” That means we need to remind ourselves what is the Gospel? What is its Good News?
We just learned from 2 Corinthians 5:8 that our loved ones who believed are with the Lord. That is part of the Good News. Jesus came so that those who believe in Him will have everlasting life (John 3:16). Our loved ones are alive in the Lord (Matthew 22:32).
3. We will see them again
The Good News also tells us that we will see them. 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 declares that the dead in Christ will rise first and be caught up together with us in the air when Christ comes in the rapture. And we will be with them forever.
When that trumpet sounds, our departed ones will have new bodies and no longer be merely spirits. Like them, we will also have new bodies (1 Corinthians 15:51). We will hug them and kiss them and be reunited with them. That is the Good News.
4. We will reign with them
The Good News also tells us that in our new bodies, we will together with our loved ones reign with Jesus for a thousand years (Revelation 20:4). There will be much godly work to do. There will be a new heaven and a new earth. God will wipe away every tear from our eyes. There will be no more deaths or mourning or crying or pain for the old order of things has passed away. God is making everything new! (Revelation 21:4-5).
Let’s therefore encourage one another with this Good News (1 Thessalonians 4:18) and conduct ourselves worthy of this Gospel.